stephanie is: confused confused…

i had to turn off anon posting. sorry. i seem to be offending people by writing about myself in my journal. heaven forbid i write anything about my own life and thoughts and expiriences in here so that i can look back on them later. geez! what crawled up people’s butts and died lately?? i liked it better when i would write an entry and people would post with simular experiences. i don’t need pages full of insults and praise. i already know my talents and downfalls. i want to learn about other people who have the same problems and successes as me. isn’t this what livejournal is about?

i just saddens me that in this world, so many people feel they have to attack others for no real reason. have my entries harmed you? what have i done wrong? do you want me to never mention myself or anything i am doing ever again in here?

21 thoughts on “”

  1. abuse

    i’ve recently had a similar experience with abusive internet people – only i found a forum topic “discussing” me, my site, my appearance, my work, everything. [referring URL stats are handy]

    the worst part was, i couldn’t do anything about it. if people post abuse in my lj or forum or guestbook, i can always delete it. this forum of anti-roshi sentiment was an outside source, like obscene graffiti that i couldn’t wash away. so considering i couldn’t do anything about it, it seemed pointless to worry. after a couple of brief rants, i’ve lost the energy to care about it anymore. who needs em?

    [by the way, hello stephanie!]

    • Re: Sorry

      don’t apologize! thank you for being so nice…

      i am just worried that people are beginning to dislike me because of all the nice posts.. i dunno – does that make any sense? i’m no better than anyone else….

      • Re: Sorry

        You’re you. You’re Steph. Better or not better doesn’t matter 🙂 watch the rhyme 🙂 eheheh
        And I’m sorry this is happening to you. I took my site down beause I couldn’t stand nasty emails anymore..

        I know it is hard, but this happens all the time, when you’re shopping, sometimes there will be someone looking at your happy face and getting mad because he’s not that happy, but since you can’t read minds, you don’t even notice.. The internet only makes things easier… Its like if that person in the store could shout at you and You wouldn’t know who was…

        Know what Steph? Don’t be sad, that’s exactly what they want..

        Ignore that, remember you can’t read people’s minds.. :***

  3. Sowwy

    I’ve praised your work, and I’ve also said that I wish I was a size two! I didn’t mean to hurt you in any way. (but it would be nice heh heh) Just keep on doing what you are doing! It’s tough being our age! We all can relate to you in one way or another. Just push out the bad, and enjoy life! You’ve worked hard to get what you have!!

  5. abuse and the abusers objectives…

    If you let them get to you, then they’ve won. This is just a single person shooting their mouth off with words, nothing more. Its true, words do hurt, but you can’t let a single instance ruin all the years you’ve devoted to make your fans happy. Yes Steph, you have fans..tons of them. Ana Voog for gosh sakes! OMFG! 😉

    Don’t let ’em get to you..

  6. Bah. Don’t listen to those poopie-butts. You are great! They are just jealous, mean, spiteful people who have nothing better to do than to put someone else down to make themselves feel better. let them try and build their ego off of you. If you argue with them, you are giving them what they want. If you ignore them, they will go away like the sorry people they really are.
    Hold that head high and know that most people aren’t like that, and that we really believe in you, like you, and respect you….
    FOR BEING YOU.
    Hang tough, ya little monkey….=)~

  7. Web of trust

    I think we need a “web of trust” feature in LiveJournal whereby people can validate that other users are good people and not dicks… then, you’ll be able to choose what level of user is able to post… say there are 5 levels. You could say that only people with “Level 4 of trust” are allowed.

    Perhaps I can extrapolate this trust information from friend lists… people that have more friends are trusted more? Does that generally hold true? And also to account for newbies, perhaps if user OLD is listed as a friend by 50 people, then all of OLD’s friends that aren’t already trusted get a bunch of bonus points, so if user NEW is a friend of OLD, then NEW is able to get to the trust level quicker, if he/she has a few trusted friends trusting them.

    Or maybe we can use the ban information… you can say that anybody that is banned by at least ‘x’ (say, 2) people can’t post to your journal.

    I’ll have to think about this more.

    “Friends only” posting sucks.

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