stephanie is: confused…
well, i’ve received a few good faq questions that need answering… but this one may be destined for a different section of my site all together…
“When you go out dancing your husband never goes with you. When you go to the grocery store there are things you can’t look at if your husband is with you. My question — Do you really like that sort of relationship? Sounds sort of one-sided and sicko.”
Local: Sat 9 Nov 2002 09:15:00pm
referrer: 0-1pool12-212.nas5.thornton1.co.us.da.qwest.net
(i do believe i’ve seen that ip before in the lovely comment about me being a webcam whore a while back. i do so love saving ip addresses and you’ll often see them recorded if you view my source code on script pages. yes. but cooincidences do happen.)
hmm. the dancing part is fairly simple. he doesn’t want to go anymore. when we first met he still danced, but his knees give him a lot of trouble so it wasn’t too much. he started djing and i would dance all night while he worked. in the last two years we kind of grew away from that whole “scene”, as they like to call it. once every few months i like to go out dancing. he has no desire to stand there watching me for hours so i get a ride with friends. makes sence, right?
but the grocery store thing? what does that mean? what can’t i look at at the store when he is there? he knows everything about me – if i need ass cream some day, i’m sure he will be there helping me pick it out. there is nothing i am embarassed of and he doesn’t tell me what to i can’t do. hm, so i am lost on that part…
and the actual question… do i like the sort of relationship i am in? yes. we are comfortable doing everything together but we don’t always… we have different interests. i am not sure how anything i’ve said on my site since it started in 1998 would make our relationship seem “one-sided” or “sicko”.
other interpretations, anyone? the only good of this faq question is that it has made me think about how peoples’ minds work…