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stephanie is: okay…

a thread i just responded to in my forum:

28/05/00 14:12:18
well..
stephanie

okay well that was just a big ol invitation for me to respond :b

1) Women are more interested when they think you are not (kinda, it’s hard to explain)

no, maybe the stupid ones are like that – but i am not going to waste my time on someone who isn’t interested in me. maybe some immature women who only are into the hunt will loose interested as soon as you get all into them – but i can assure you there are plenty of men out there like that as well.

2) Women want to change you, even if you are perfect. Let them think they have succeeded once in a while.

that is a very broad asumption. i don’t want to change anyone. anyone who does (male or female) has issues and needs to reconsider their relationship. and don’t let then think they have succeded – wouldn’t that just motivate them to do even more?

3) Women like to play mind games and will deny this to their death; but, will die if not allowed to play them. (i.e., you have to play along to keep them around)

correction – HUMANS like to play mind games.

4) No matter how well you kept your dignity, women will remember it differently.

everyone remembers events differently from their own unique perspectives. you should accept this as a part of the joys of being humans. many people distort their memories of the past in their favor – but not nessisarily “women” as a whole.

5) If a woman has decided that it is over; then, IT IS OVER. (Refer to #3…they may tell you it’s over even when they have not decided it’s over. You will need to read body language to know if she means it or is playing a game.)

how is this in reference to women? can’t both people in the relationship go through periods of uncertainty. and if someone is lying to you about their true feelings then obviously they are not the person you want to be with.

6) No matter how much you give up your dignity trying to change her mind, you will accomplish nothing except humiliation.

okay, so now YOU are trying to change HER – wasn’t this a bad thing?

7a) You will find that no matter how much it seems that you are perfect together, if a woman has decided it is over, you WILL find someone better…hold out for your soul mate!

true enough but without the gender modifiers. there are always people out there that are compatable with you and will make you happy. never settle for second best. find your love, your lust, your soulmate, and your best friend all in one.

7b) Depending on your co-dependency quotient, it is better for most men to live their lives alone than to settle for anything less than their soul mate.

why say “men”? isn’t it better for most humans – most living creatures – to not settle for a relationship that makes them less than happy?

7) Your true soul mate will agree that you are soul mates. You take it from there.

agreed 🙂

s.